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STOP SEEKING APPROVAL

Updated: Nov 21, 2023

WE SEEK TO PROVE OUR WORTH  BY EXTERNAL APPROVAL

YET OUR TRUE VALUE IS FOUND WHEN WE DROP THE BURDEN OF PROOF


The word approved contains within it the word prove , for when we seek approval from others it is because we are looking to prove to ourselves we have value , and we see this as proof of our worth .


Yet at its core the this way of operating comes from the mistaken belief that value is somehow measured in our usefulness to others. In our childhood many of us heard the words 'useless' , 'stupid' or 'good for nothing' and the impact of this was to adopt the behaviors that gain us approval so as to feel we had value .


The truth is that our inherent value is not derived from exterior source but when we drop the burden of proof . For it is only when we stop the inauthentic actions  to try to feel valuable and listen to our own authentic guidance that we drop our false identity and are a clear conduit for source to express through us . The unique position we offer  can only be witnessed  by us alone and the individual beauty seen through our expression is the true reason for our existence , this is a invaluable contribution to existence and doesn't require us to prove a thing.


What are you seeking to prove to yourself  that surrendering would reveal a deeper value??


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