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SELF JUDGEMENT
WHAT WE JUDGE IN ANOTHER WE REJECT IN OURSELVES All of us when threatened feel justified in being judgmental . We look at another's...

Paul Gotel
May 3, 20241 min read
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FIND YOURSELF FIRST
BEFORE YOU GET LOST REMEMBER TO FIND YOURSELF Many of us get lost in our day-to-day activities and responsibilities, we are so full with...

Paul Gotel
May 1, 20242 min read
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BE A LIGHT UNTO YOURSELF
IN THE DARKNESS BE YOUR OWN LIGHT Darkness is often associated with negative ideology. That there is something hidden within it that...

Paul Gotel
Apr 29, 20242 min read
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STOP AND REFLECT
Stopping is a precious gift to the internal self Most of us fill our days with an endless list of things to do and feel productive and...

Paul Gotel
Apr 20, 20242 min read
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QUALITY OF LOVE EXPRESSED
The quality of the love you express is more important than the retention of a relationship through compromise . When we are in...
Paul Gotel
Apr 15, 20242 min read
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LEAN INTO DISCOMFORT
WHEN WE LEAN INTO DISCOMFORT OUR HIDDEN GRIEF ARISES AND TRANSFORMS INTO PEACE When any kind of discomfort arises most of us have learnt...
Paul Gotel
Apr 10, 20242 min read
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Self Compassion
BEING COMPASSIONATE WITH OTHERS BREEDS COMPASSION FOR SELF Many of us, without fully realizing it can overextend ourselves and give a lot...
Paul Gotel
Apr 9, 20242 min read
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SERVICE IS NOT SACRIFICE
Service is not sacrifice Many of us are called to service in our lives yet if we are not balanced within ourselves we can sacrifice...
Paul Gotel
Apr 5, 20242 min read
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LOVING RESILIENCE
Loving Resilience is having the fortitude to be authentic and trusting the consequences Love is the absence of conditions, it is not a...
Paul Gotel
Apr 1, 20242 min read
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TRUST EVERYONE TO LEARN
Trust everyone to learn from their own mistakes , to intervene interrupts their evolution In some roles in our lives , particularly...
Paul Gotel
Mar 27, 20242 min read
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Resolution by ownership
Ownership is the shortest part to resolution When we are challenged in life, especially by another person who seems at odds with us, we...
Paul Gotel
Mar 24, 20242 min read
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APPRECIATION
That which you appreciate, Appreciates for you There are two different meanings we ascribe to the word appreciation, one is similar to...
Paul Gotel
Mar 22, 20241 min read
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Courageous authenticity
BEING AUTHENTIC REQUIRES COURAGE YET THE PAYOFF IS WAY MORE THAN THE COST Although we all agree that being authentic is a great virtue,...
Paul Gotel
Mar 16, 20242 min read
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LOVE IS AN EXPRESSION
LOVE IS AN EXPRESSION NOT AN ACQUISITION What are you loving for ? Many of us have hijack the essence of human love as a means to acquire...
Paul Gotel
Mar 13, 20242 min read
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DON'T SAVE,SUPPORT
DONT TRY TO SAVE SOMEONE, SUPPORT THEM When we see someone in a situation that we perceive as dangerous or impactful in some way , most...
Paul Gotel
Mar 10, 20242 min read
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LEAN INTO CHALLENGES
LEAN INTO CHALLENGE TO BECOME FEARLESS LEAN INTO THE CHALLENGE When we are challenged one of the more common ways of dealing with it is...
Paul Gotel
Mar 7, 20242 min read
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DE-LIGHT-FULL
WHEN WE ARE LIT UP WE FILL THE WORLD WITH DELIGHT Most of us look for something outside of ourselves to ignite us and spend a lot of our...
Paul Gotel
Mar 1, 20242 min read
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LEAN INTO EXCITEMENT
Dont let your past disappointment dampen your present excitement When we are children, we are full of the excitement of the moment...
Paul Gotel
Feb 27, 20242 min read
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DROP YOUR INSISTENCE
DROP YOUR INSISTENCE AND TRUST IN DIVINE TIMING When we have an agenda without realizing it, we can be very insistent on having it...
Paul Gotel
Feb 16, 20242 min read
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Everything we hold onto holds us back
In life we have learnt at an early age to hold on to things , sometimes even things that we no longer need , and this hoarding behavior...
Paul Gotel
Feb 14, 20242 min read
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